Stop And Make It Happen
If you ‘want’ change then this time next year you will still ‘want’ it, and this time in 5 years you will still ‘want’ it… For the sake of the life you have chosen not to lead, stop ‘wanting’ it and go and make it happen…. As only YOU can.
What Would Happen If You Totally Forgave Everyone?
Ask yourself this question, ‘What would happen if you had no regrets about your past?’ Have you ever tried to imagine what would happen if you totally forgave everyone who has been part of your life with complete disregard for whatever they did to you?
Of course not, why would we? We all hold on to our resentments to others as if they are some sort of valuable possession. Have you ever asked, why do we do that? The answer is simple. We have not looked at it before (we have very lazy minds, everyone does it), so we, being herd mentality beasts just follow the crowd.
Focus On Your Feelings!
So what are you feeling now? Take a few moments to think about how you feel. If you’re not feeling as good as you’d like to, focus on feeling your feelings inside and purposefully lift them. As you focus on your feelings, with the intention to lift yourself you can powerfully elevate them. One way is to close your eyes…
What Benefit Is There In Holding On To Your Resentments?
By holding on to your resentment and anger you are literally perpetuating unhappiness, poverty, sickness, limitation and a lack mentality in your own life. So do you think any of that stuff will help you get rich or live a serene life?
Of course not, but we ‘want’ our resentment don’t we? Well at least we do until we notice how ridiculous it is, or until we realize that it is not us that wants our resentment at all. It is actually our little saboteur who wants to keep hold of it. This is so that it can use it to keep you down, to keep you where you are, to keep you repeating the mistakes.
Accept And Learn To Love People
The more we accept and learn to love people, the more you learn to ask, ‘Why did I think that?’, the more of life will be revealed to you. There is some real power in just stopping to think!
Try and catch yourself when you scoff at someone ‘trying’ and probably making a hash of whatever they are doing. Ask yourself why am I thinking this way? You know the only right way to think is either not at all or to see a positive outcome for them. How should you know this? Only positive thoughts will help you. So how can you negatively putting someone’s efforts down be of help you? You saw a bad outcome for them, so ask yourself, ‘Why did I judge?’ Just observe your feelings.
Just because everyone including you and me, do this unconsciously, it does not make it right.
Thoughts Of A Positive Outcome!
Most people allow in other people’s feelings of sorry because they are told by society that this is the right way. So they do it without thinking.
Feeling sorry is either something you habitually do, something you feel you ought to do or a non-acceptance of what is. Society tells you that you should feel sorry and you should feel guilty, all of which have no benefit to you and have no probable benefit to the person on the other end.
It involves a lot of thought to not feel sorry for people when we have been trained from birth by the media and everyone around us that we ‘should’ feel sorry. This is just like so many of the other false ‘beliefs’ we have accepted as truths.
When you say I feel sorry for you (which is what society expects you to say) – don’t. Instead see a positive outcome for your friend.
This does not mean you cannot give, it just means there is no need to feel sorry. It doesn’t help you and it doesn’t help them, even though your ego tells you it does. Feeling sorry for others is feeding your ego what it wants, which is why it is an easy habit to get into. If you doubt this then go and observe it as you do it.
If you really ‘want’ to help others and help yourself too, then acquiring this skill of really helping people with sending only thoughts of a positive outcome, is truly awe inspiring and empowering… It also actually helps you and may well help them. Your feeling sorry does not add anything to your life, even though it feels like it does, it can damage the ones you are thinking you are helping. By you feeling sorry, you are creating more opportunities to feel sorry, no thought stands still, so it is hurting your desires.
It does not mean don’t raise money, don’t help, it just means don’t feel sorry. Instead send thoughts of a positive outcome; send positive energy not negative energy.
People do not understand me though when I say I do not feel sorry. They wrongly assume this to mean I do not care, which of course is wholly wrong. However, when you learn to stop feeling sorry then you can watch people, events, news and TV and you start to see things differently. To know what I mean you’ll have to actually do it.
Control Over Your Mind!
On the path to riches, without control over your mind, you are simply doomed to repeating the mistakes you made in the past or merely mediocre success at best. 
If you do not master control over your mind, then there is no point in trying to obtain great wealth, as you will struggle forever until you recognize that this control is the very foundation that must be put in place to bring about everything else you study.
‘What would happen if you had no regrets about your past?’
Ask yourself this question, ‘What would happen if you had no regrets about your past?’ Have you ever tried to imagine what would happen if you totally forgave everyone who has been part of your life with complete disregard for whatever they did to you?
Of course not, why would we? We all hold on to our resentments to others as if they are some sort of valuable possession. Have you ever asked, why do we do that? The answer is simple. We have not looked at it before (we have very lazy minds, everyone does it), so we, being herd mentality beasts just follow the crowd.
Questions That Tells About The Past
Look at the past… It has happened, therefore what can you do about it? Nothing… after all it has happened. So it just is!
If something just is, then what is the point of being concerned about it?
Is it because you ‘want’ to feel bad?
Is it because you feel you ‘should’ feel bad?
Is it because someone close to you keeps reminding you ‘to’ feel bad about what you did?
Does it have ANY value to your life moving forward?
Why do you think you spend now thinking about something you can’t change and that makes you feel bad?
Do you think that something you can’t change and makes you feel bad will help you in ANY way now?
Of course not! How can it help you other than guidance to not do it again?
What Possible Benefit Is There In Regretting A Past Experience?
Just think about a past experience which you regret, what possible benefit is there for you in regretting something? Once you realised you had done it badly wrong, then what are the chances of you ever doing it again?
Let’s say the situation came up where you could make the same mistake again in ten years, will you have forgotten about making the mistake?No, you learnt the lesson and can avoid it, in other words it is a piece of software which was installed onto your computer and when you need to use it in the future it will be there.
You don’t need to keep going to the computer twice a month to see if the software is still installed so that in ten years time you have checked that it is there 240 times. So every second of thought you apply to regret is of what possible benefit to you?
How To Control Over You Mind
On the path to riches, without control over your mind, you are simply doomed to repeating the mistakes you made in the past or merely mediocre success at best. If you do not master control over your mind, then there is no point in trying to obtain great wealth, as you will struggle forever until you recognize that this control is the very foundation that must be put in place to bring about everything else you study.
How Does Resentment Gives Value
Whatever you resent is a statement of what you lack – painful I know! But you didn’t come here to hear stuff that didn’t force you to change your thinking. You came here to learn how to create an abundantly wealthy and happy life, so keep going.
On the health side, resentment actually breaks down your immune system as well, and therefore helps you to die sooner… Now I think we are all agreed that we don’t ‘want’ that… so what the hell does resentment actually give us? All I can think of is something to talk about…(well we need to get out more then!). There is, however, value in resentment, but you only receive that value when you give up resentment.
Knowing What You Really Want
When you notice yourself in either fear or worry – you must stop yourself right there and tell yourself that you are no longer in harmony with what you desire.
At this point it should be crystal clear what you want because it is never more clear than when you are experiencing what you don’t want.
Your Mind is Hurling The Rocks
You cannot plan your way out of a bad situation if your mind is hurling rocks at you. First you must stop the entity which is hurling the rocks before you can plan to do anything
A Choice About Everything In Your Life
You have a choice about everything in your life with two exceptions. One – that you will one day die, and two – you will have to live every day until you die. Everything else is a choice.
If you do not have the life you desire then someone else made that choice for you.
How To Feel Good All The Time
Feel good as often as you can. 
Your whole goal in life is to feel good.
Feeling good is the secret to manifesting.
I promise myself that regardless of what happens I am going to feel good.
To not feel good takes me away from my goal.
Find out what makes you feel bad & stop it – practicing this will lead you to always feeling good.
Reach for the thought that feels best in any moment – if you are too busy to find one then – I CHOOSE TO FEEL GOOD NOW
The Great Power in Your Acceptance!
Do not lie to yourself, just accept it and simply allow it to be as it is! There is great power in your acceptance of this and it takes you nearer your goal, not further away. 
It doesn’t matter where or who you are as long as you accept it. It is your non-acceptance which hurts you.
Learn To Stop Feeling Sorry To Others!
Most people allow in other people’s feelings of sorry because they are told by society that this is the right way. So they do it without thinking.
Feeling sorry is either something you habitually do, something you feel you ought to do or a non-acceptance of what is. Society tells you that you should feel sorry and you should feel guilty, all of which have no benefit to you and have no probable benefit to the person on the other end.
It involves a lot of thought to not feel sorry for people when we have been trained from birth by the media and everyone around us that we ‘should’ feel sorry. This is just like so many of the other false ‘beliefs’ we have accepted as truths.
When you say I feel sorry for you (which is what society expects you to say) – don’t. Instead see a positive outcome for your friend.
This does not mean you cannot give, it just means there is no need to feel sorry. It doesn’t help you and it doesn’t help them, even though your ego tells you it does. Feeling sorry for others is feeding your ego what it wants, which is why it is an easy habit to get into. If you doubt this then go and observe it as you do it.
If you really ‘want’ to help others and help yourself too, then acquiring this skill of really helping people with sending only thoughts of a positive outcome, is truly awe inspiring and empowering… It also actually helps you and may well help them. Your feeling sorry does not add anything to your life, even though it feels like it does, it can damage the ones you are thinking you are helping. By you feeling sorry, you are creating more opportunities to feel sorry, no thought stands still, so it is hurting your desires.
It does not mean don’t raise money, don’t help, it just means don’t feel sorry. Instead send thoughts of a positive outcome; send positive energy not negative energy.
People do not understand me though when I say I do not feel sorry. They wrongly assume this to mean I do not care, which of course is wholly wrong. However, when you learn to stop feeling sorry then you can watch people, events, news and TV and you start to see things differently. To know what I mean you’ll have to actually do it.
Observe Your Feelings, Don’t judge
You don’t need to beat yourself up and say I must act differently in the future, and then get annoyed when you don’t. Your act of presence and observation changes your result.
Your observation changes your outcome! It does not need your judgement to change, your judgement didn’t change it – your observation did.
So if you think something bad about yourself, stop yourself and ask why?
This also goes for your thoughts towards other people. If you think something bad about another, stop and ask why? Just observe your feelings, don’t judge.
A Lack Of The Mind
All I can say is thank goodness for biological urges and a lack of the mind bulls**t which we humans build up as we age, otherwise the human race would die out in just a generation.
What do I mean? Well just imagine if you had left it solely to your mind to decide whether or not you should go and try and find a partner. 
If you had, the only decision it would have made is, you should stay at home and watch TV!
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