How To Be Successful in Life – Building Your Self Esteem
IMPROVE YOURSELF BY BUILDING YOUR SELF ESTEEM
Life will keep throwing things at you. So how can you be expected to keep you self-esteem up when there is so much to overcome? You won’t be able to dodge each and every missile. The trick is to know what you should avoid the most in order to improve yourself.
NEGATIVITY IN YOUR WORK ENVIRONMENT
Everyone wants to get ahead. There’s nothing wrong with a little friendly competition. The problem is that some people take it too far. They may actually try to sabotage your efforts at being productive. Maybe you don’t have to deal with this extreme. It may be as slight as not being appreciated.
Things like that can really cause your self-esteem to plummet. Look around. Is it that you’re actually being ignored or do you just perceive it to be that way? You’re doing good work and you know it. There’s no reason why others shouldn’t know it too. Pay no attention to those who are trying to bring you down and concentrate on the fact that you are invaluable.
People can have so many habits that just drain your energy: whining, complaining, gossiping, nagging and sticking their noses in your personal business. If you have no energy, your self-esteem will reach an all –time low. Talk to them about their negativity and if they can’t stop then don’t keep these people around.
TOO MUCH CHANGE
Change is good. Change is inevitable. Dealing with too much change at one time can leave you reeling. It forces you to be more flexible than perhaps you are able to be. Try dealing with one thing at a time. Don’t take too much on to your plate or you may be overwhelmed. You’ll know how much you can handle. Learn to listen to yourself.
You’re going to be faced with many choices in your life. You will have many obstacles in your journey to build your self-esteem. Avoiding the three situations outlined will go a long way in helping you to do this.
You need to do this. You need to build your self-esteem and you will see it manifested in many different areas of your life. It really is like a tiny spark. If you can make that spark grow into a fire, you can take control of your life and make things happen the way that you want them to.
Have you ever wondered why some people seem to have it all? It’s because they made things happen. They believed in themselves and their abilities. They extracted themselves from situations where they were faced with negativity. That’s what you need to do improve yourself and kick -start your journey to self-development.
To your success
Andy Shaw – A Bug Free Mind