How To Be Successful – The Secrets Of Success
Have you finally reached a point where you’ve noticed that your life is not currently looking like it’s going to deliver the success you once dreamed of?
Have you reached the point where you are very nearly ready to give up dreaming of success forever?
This can be your turning point in life, however, this brief moment of awareness is merely that, and very soon you will slip back into what I call ‘the waking sleep of the human race.’ You see, right now in your brief moment of awareness you are saying “I want to be successful!” However, this is only true for while you are awake. Success costs, it costs comfort.
So has your comfortable quiet life of desperation finally become too uncomfortable for you? Or rather has it become uncomfortable enough for you ‘to get serious about your success?’ Because if it has, then the first thing you will have to learn is to stay awake and work out if you really do desire to be successful.
The problem is that successful people have a natural burning desire to become successful. They don’t even look at becoming a success because that’s obvious and so needs no research. The research comes in, in exactly ‘how to be successful.’ In other words, successful people focus on how they want to become a success.
With me, I first started in business, and even though to others it looked like a success to me. A success meant having shed loads of money, not just a business that beat the industry norm.
So I went off and researched how to be successful in other areas. I chose property investment first and became an almost overnight success making millions in about seven months. Then once that became boring to me, I looked into online businesses and how to be successful at that.
Again I was an overnight success there too, and then finally long after I had originally started in business I did another all new business and that became an astonishing success almost overnight.
I just knew I wanted to be a success, so I now just needed to figure out what success looked like… And everybody’s success looks different.
Are You A Naturally Successful Person?
If you are instinctively successful, then your instincts will overcome all of these hurdles for at least your initial first successful venture. However, time erodes confidence even though success creates it. Being successful has it own set of problems and what happens is time happens and self-sabotage combined with allowing the wrong thoughts into our minds erodes a successful nature.
You see this all the time in sports stars. They are great out of the gate and have a string of successes, then they stumble for a few years. Then the ones who are able to overcome their own self-sabotage and crooked thinking eventually recover to win again.
This is a breakdown in their natural success mindset. The same thing is true in virtually all successful people. Nothing is a constant and being successful in life and remaining so requires correct thinking and a clear mind. Just ask any sportsman or successful person who has been successful, lost the success and then regained it.
If you are not instinctively successful then you must ‘cultivate your desire for success.’ This is exactly how to be successful in life. When you cultivate your desire you tap into a burning desire to succeed and you become an unstoppable force. From then on success is inevitable as long as you nurture this desire and do not lose it. Though as someone who does not have this desire naturally there are several hurdles to overcome.
The 5 Hurdles To Your Success
The first is your ego, the real controller of your mind. If you want to learn how to become successful in life you must first learn to silence that voice so that you have a clear mind to concentrate with. Most people try to build success first without silencing the voice. This is akin to putting the roof on the house before you’ve built the walls.
You must also silence it so that you can choose which thoughts you allow into your mind and which thoughts you decide to no longer allow in, this is the core requirement in becoming successful. So do not underestimate the importance in the simplicity.
This is your second hurdle, you must notice what thoughts are in your mind and decide which ones help you go in the direction you wish to go in and which do not. This again sounds very simple, but it is a foundation stone required to achieve success.
The third hurdle is, you MUST know what success looks like for you. This is your ‘how to be a success’ question, and it MUST be something you love to do, as this gives you passion – success loves passion, passion loves success.
The fourth hurdle is another invisible one, it is your conscious mind. Your conscious mind, which you think is your friend is actually working against you in you creating your success. So you have to acquire the skill of hearing your thoughts and then evaluating them without judgement.
Judgement is weakness, observation is power, the only reason a conscious mind judges is that it has not evaluated a situation well enough. There is no need to judge when all the facts are in as the answer is self-evident.
Successful people rarely bother with judgement; they rely on the answer to become self-evident. It is only when they start to employ judgement that their natural success abilities start to wane.
Hurdle five is giving up on time. You design your success to just happen so that you know it will… Not ‘believe’ it will, you know it will. Then once you have done that you put in place possible steps to get there which allow your subconscious mind to see multiple possible route to become successful. Then once that is done, you give up on when it will happen, and just know it will happen at the right time and in the right way.
The Secrets To Your Success Lie Inside Your Mind
If you want to learn how to become successful then you have to take a step inside your mind and clear out all the junk which you have in there and get your mind back to the time when you too had a natural burning desire to succeed. As believe it or not we all had it. It was when we were children and we demonstrated this ability as we learnt to walk.
So if you want to learn how to achieve success then you have to get your mindset back to the same point as when you were learning to walk. This is the process of creating a bug free mind, once you’ve created that then your success will be certain.
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